So, this is the dilemma. Trying to decide if accepting this Facebook friend request is something I'm ready for. I'm at war with myself on this one. (What's new, right?)
On one hand, if I did accept it, what can it really hurt? I don't plan on communicating with him. What can it hurt to accept and say, "Sure. I'm in a good place. I can just be your friend. No harm done." After all, what message would denying this request send? I certainly don't want him to think I don't care.
On the other hand, do I really
want need to have the ability to contact him? Can I handle that? Do I want to handle that? Do I want him to know the details of my life? Do I want to know the details of
his? Will I ever be ready for him to re-enter my life - just as friends. Can you just be friends with someone you were forced to "get over" loving? Not sure this is something this girl can handle. Why does that make me feel like I'm stuck in yesterday?
2 comments:
I know you did not really ask - but I say run!!! Don't set yourself up for more hurt. You will know when you are ready- if ever - and will not have to ask the question. Just my two cents worth....
I'm a little late on this, b/c we've talked but definitely FOE! ;)
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